I've Loved You So Long

Foreign films leave American audiences cold at least in part to their failure to be BIG. They are often quiet little stories about astonishingly unglamorous people, doing ordinary things... like living. This is, of course, the very reason that I enjoy them. I adore a little movie about some regular folks getting by; especially if it gives me a sort of illicit peek into the way someone else manages to do that. If I have to read subtitles to do that, well, so be it.

I've Loved You So Long is a quiet little movie about a quiet woman quietly bearing a terrible secret and a whole lot of pain. It opens as Juliette (Kristin Scott Thomas) returns to the land of the living after 15 years in prison. She is met by her much younger sister Lea (Elysa Zylberstein)who generously opens her home even though the two women are virtually strangers. Juliette is a sphinx who slowly warms to the new people in her life - her little nieces, her guarded brother-in-law, his silent father. The everyday challenges of life are made harder by the question of her crime - finding a job, dealing with social workers and parole officers - but the harder call is how to rebuild the relationship with her sister.

Kristin Scott Thomas is a fabulous actress in any language. Her eyes say so much despite Juliette's lack of dialogue; the cracks in her armor showing on that expressive face. I'll let it slip that this movie lacks the traditional "it will get worse" storyline and lets Juliette move back into life without any spectacular crisis. But that's what makes it moving. Quietly so. See the website here.